Thursday 1 October 2009

I'll never be a blogger at heart

I just can't keep up.

So here are some things that I've experienced in the last 2 weeks...

I've moved out. Well, this isn't new, and thankfully, I'm not homesick. I've done it before and before, Mum couldn't ring everyday. So this is nice and easy! :)

My room is very me. It's personal, it's my space, I get lots of compliments, and I like it a lot.

As of yet, no getting completely wasted! And that has been noted by my housemates. I've drunk plenty, but dancing and the lovely 10 minute walk in the cold home afterwards seems to sober me nicely.

I have had a mixture of lectures, seminars and labs. All are pretty straightforward. They like to set lots of reading tasks. One made the mistake of trying to tell me that the mind, soul and spirit were all the same thing, in the same place, doing the same thing. Why don't they all be called by one name then?

I've had 2 fire drills. Both went smoothly. Both were planned drills.

I've sat in A and E for 4 hours (for a friend), dealt with a lad who passed out, and been told some very personal and in 1 case a mental health related stories. I'm certainly doing what I'm being paid to do.

I got paid £40 to sit in/around/outside the building for 5 hours on Saturday to tour open day people. I showed 2 people my room. No one likes the walk up to my house! :)

I am in training for Ultimate Frisbee. As a result, i have bought a special frisbee for practice. I'm pretty good, actually! :P I've also joined the Christian Union (lovely bunch) and been to Grace Church (New Frontiers). Both places seem to have got it right theologically. The church have a gorgeous starry effect backdrop. That says God is on High to me! :) Might consider getting a job soon. But more prayer is needed in that area. Time? Where? How much work? Lazy?

I love my beautiful house. It's so sweet and already, all us 55 'pinewoodians' (residents) are like an unusual dysfunctional family. I love it. Everyone is lovely. I've met so many people, made some initial friends all over the place. I can't wait to see which friendships really progress.

I miss my close friends though. I can't wait till anyone and everyone visits.

I have not resorted to a single ready meal! I cook, I clean, I live on a floor solely inhabited by men! My student loan hasn't arrived just yet but I have money to survive until then.

This is very bitty, and for that, I apologise. Please comment if you'd like me to elaborate on anything further.

Love always! xxx

Thursday 10 September 2009

Ends and Beginnings

I'm writing this and wondering who will read it now? Now my 'exciting' travels are over and regular life starts. I don't know if anyone will know I've posted, I won't say so.

I'm continuing on with this blog so that I can recount my uni years. I do hope i blog regularly. I expect that of the blogs I read, so this blog deserves the same attention.

China is over. That part of my life has past. What a blur! I loved it, hated it, mourn it and say good riddance to it. So much happened in that 6 months that i don't know if anyone but myself and God will ever know it all. It all comes back to my pet peeve of a question: 'How was China?' In actual fact, you're asking how my last 6 months and constant activity and new experiences was. And you wait 10 seconds for a satisfactory answer. I'll never answer. Not honestly. It was great, I loved it. Thank you very much.

But I don't blame you either. I'd ask the same (maybe not now, but in your position...). Because what can you ask of your friend or relative? When they have done so much and contact has been so minimal. I do hope that I recount some of the best and worst times to my closest, or anyone willing to listen. Because I want you to be a part of that time in my life. I want you to know what I went through and how that has shaped who I am now. So if it overspills into this blog, so be it.

As I said, I'm keeping this blog. And the title remains. My journey doesn't end, it has just moved to Chichester for a while, and then it will move on again I'm sure. It sounds cliché. I wish it didn't. 'Life's a journey', they say. And it is. But you've spoilt that phrase with patronism and misguided hope.

I've just spent a lovely week in Cyprus. I have an impressive tan for only a weeks work. And I've come home alone to a pile of stuff for university. The necessary Natwest account, it's accompanying railcard, debit card, cheque book, credit card and the free gift of a USB memory stick. I'm excited because one of my bestest friends is coming over to drink tea, chat and steal what clothes i won't take to university. I love her lots. She knows it, but I like to tell her so. And for those who can't be here while I pack and chat and drink tea, you're missed. I wish you were here, but wishing doesn't work. So I've probably text you.

I'm in good spirits. My blog doesn't seem to reflect that well. I've had an amazing year to date. I regret nothing. I'm Blessed, Loved, Encouraged, Strengthened and Saved. Hold me accountable this year. God has put me in a position where He can do the same for others through me. Rachel Bradley, reporting for duty to BLESS. Amen.

Monday 22 June 2009

The Last Time

This is it. I'm giving back this laptop tomorrow night and for the last 3 weeks i'll probably not blog anymore! So he's a big catch up on what i've been up to and what i plan to do. Do expect a blog at some point after my return though, which, for those still unsure is the 16th of July.

So, a list of my activities, a 10 day German beer festival, horse riding in the middle of no where, my last ever English Corner for the local primary students, plenty o' shopping, a haircut and the beginnings of some packing!

The last English corner was actually an unfortunate let down. We dodn't have as many kids as most weeks because of the summer rainstorms we've been having. It was a shame not to say goodbye to all of them, and it also leaves Thyra and I with about 20 mickey mouse notebooks and pencils that we signed and can't do anything with! Gutted! But we did have some fun doing the 'Peter Piper' tongue twister!

The German beer festival was a complete, welcome surprise. They have one here in Shenyang occassionally because we have good connections with a part of Germany apparently! Had some crazy Chinese and german bands, all sorts of music and plenty of beer! One band worth mentioning were Panik! Worth looking up! Really enjoyable! So we moshed and had some fun on many evenings at Zhongshan park!

So, next Tuesday is my last day of teaching! So until then i'm just doing revision and games lessons with the kids. I've bought 300 sparkly smiley face stickers which will please my students greatly. I've also got 4 presents for the ladies with whom i share an office. 2 Chinese English teachers a craft teacher and a dance teacher. All have been so lovely to me! I'll miss them!

This weekend i'll be heading out to Dandong to take a peek into North Korea and all things Korean. I expect many things with my camera's oh so wonderful 12X optical zoom! And preferably, i won't get shot! :D

Somehow, my 'stuff' from the past 6 months has to whittle down into a suitcase and a hand luggage size suitcase ready for my flight to Shanghai on the 3rd of July! We'll stay in a youth hostel for a week or so. Visit the sights, do some clubbing and have ourselves a little holiday! Then one the 11th ish i'll grab an overnight train up to Beijing, maybe making a few stops on the way and then spend my last 4 or 5 days hanging out, doing last minute shopping and sight seeing and say my lengthy goodbyes to my friends and to China.

That's the general plan! I really can't say if i'll make it online at all until then. I might try to visit the internet cafes occassionally so don't be suprised if a mini blog appears here and there. And please, feel free to still email and write on my wall. I'll still get them all when i get back!

Well i'm not sure what else needs to be said. Just to ask you not to worry when i seem to be ignoring you! And to say thanks to those who i know have been following this. It really helped knowing i had people at home keeping up with what i'm doing!

And thanks Craig for keeping my blog updated for me! No thanks to China for blocking it...grrr!

As you know very well, i love you all dearly! take of yourselves in the next 3 weeks. Would realy like to come home to all my friends in one piece! And i'll try and return the favor! ;)

Zai Jian!!!!!!!!!! See you soon guys!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday 6 June 2009

Holidays

Hey!!! I got back from my holiday in sunny Dalian Monday night at around half past 11 (which, I must mention, is when I applied for my student housing! You won't believe how tired I was. But I take this while first come first serve thing seriously. And I wanted those halls!!)

Anyway, as promised to most of you, i'll give the account of my time away...

Wednesday I worked all day and packed after work. Just a little suitcase of things (thank you DT – that thing is invaluable!) Then me and Thyra had our 3rd ritual of beer and cake! Honestly, the cake in China is amazing! Shortly after, the 2 guys coming with us arrived at our place and we hung out till around until 1am. Then we grabbed a cab to the train station.

Our train was an hour late so we actually didn't leave Shenyang until 3 in the morning! But fear not! The Big Mac that I had definitely made me feel much happier about the waiting time. We paid for hard seats for the 6 hour train journey because we're cheap. It cost is about £5 intead of £14. And the difference is huge here in China!!!

I didn't actually sleep the entire journey. For those who know me well enough, i'll sleep through/on ANYTHING! But this train, no. the other 3 did though. So I listened to my ipod and read some of my book. Then we arrived! We headed straight for our hotel, which is the most difficult hotel to find ever! It's just like the Chinese to shove a hotel in a back street ally outside of the main city! Whatever! It was very nice, a family run thing. As Thyra and I were shown to our room we were told in Chinese by the 2 young girls working there that we were beautiful! (I knew I learnt that word for a reason! :P)

So the first day in a seaside town, of course, we head to the beach! Golden Pebble Bay, to be precise! It was gorgeous! Upon arrival we swam in the sea! The Chinese people thought we were crazy (we were, to be fair. It was FREEZING!) So we tanned, we walked, we swam, we buried Kenrick in the sand. Then it was dinner time! To get back to the station to get the train back to the main city we grabbed a ride on a (DONOT READ THE NEXT BIT MUM) a motorcycle! I had complete faith since I only paid 20p for the journey. :-/ I might not try it again. I didn't like it much, in fact I was terrified. I blame my parents. :P

So we head to the hotel, shower and go to a nice local restaurant recommended by our hotel. We ate ridculous amounts of food, drank plenty of beer and then when we holla for the bill, we're told (in Chinese BTW – i'm getting quite good if I do say so myself) that it's free. The manager did not want us to pay. How sweet! We were very touched.
After that we headed to the prak were the Chinese tend to congregate for evening kareoke, ball games, hacky sack kicking and general socialising. It's always a nice atmosphere. And we are always treated like celebrities! Then we kicked back in a nearish pub for a cranberry bircardi breezer (well the others drank beer or something – but I couldn't resist! It was a holiday after all!)

The next we decided not to put our skin through another day of tanning (or burning in some of our case.) So we started by visinting the Russian Street of Dalian. I guess it's like China Town in London. Of course we were mistaken for Russians many times and spoken to in Chinese and Russian most of the time. Not so useful! We detoured around the back streets to check out the Russian slums which was really interesting too.

After all that we made our way to a famous park in Dalian. It was full of street performers, fair ground rides, snack places and Chinese people! We took a cable car to the top of the big hill from where you can see pretty much all of Dalian from! Then we took the mountain slide back down! Imagine a tabogan type situation, except less safe and i'm wearing a skirt! :S As they say in Chinese 每时, never mind, doesn't matter!

We visted some other non-interesting sights then back to the area around our hotel for some dinner. The evening was spent at Noah's Ark Bar which was advertised in someones guidebook. They had 4 guys playing guitars on stage and they were very good! It was pretty enjoyable!

So the next day we hit the beach again. Lao Hu Tan. Well, that was the plan. But we arrived and discovered that some ocean park had claimed the length of the cost there and were charging £20 to get in! Shocking! So some randomer approached us and asked us if we'd like a lift in his mini van. So he took us to another beach for just 50p each – much more managable! It was a gorgeous beach! We would have missed all the gogrgeous scenery and that beach had we paid the extortionate price of the water park! It was hard to believe we were in China. It was more like a tropical island! Plenty of sunbathing and ocean swimming was had!

That night everyone but Thyra and I left. They all had to work either Sunday or Monday. So they take off and Thyra and I are alone! Yay! Shopping! He hit the markets and shops big time! We got a fair amount of very cool purchases. Clothes, jewelery, shoes and a blow up frog chair (don't ask.) And all for about £25! I love Chinese prices!

Monday evening we grabbed our train. I slept this time for a couple of hours. It actually arrived home and hour and a half before we were expecting which was a huge blessing since i'd planned to do my student finance!

And there we have it! I wish I could tell you much more but i'm dying here! That's taken ages and the heat in our flat is ridiculous! And this hot laptop on my lap isn't helping!

A quick update until now...

Tuesday night I had my usual Chinese lesson, Wednesday I taught an evening class of 7 year olds for some extra cash. And this weekend i'm running 4 houres worth of training for kindergarton kids entered into an English speaking competion. That'll be an extra £40! Next weekend i'll do the same for some more money. Thyra can't do it because she's not a native English speaker which sucks. She's got more of an English accent than most and she's the most fluent non native person i've ever met! She's too modest! But i've passed over the evenign class job to her so she can earn some money that way since I have the weekend thing.

And now, I am closing. I'm so sorry for the length of this! Pictures of my time in Dalian and the sports day/performance put on by my Kindergarton will be on facebook as soon as I can!

I LOVE YOU ALL! xxx

Wednesday 27 May 2009

Stormy Holidays

So Thyra and i planned to spend our beautiful summer evening going for a walk. Then an hour before a huge thunder and lightning storm breaks it! Such a juxtaposition on the beautiful day we'd just had! So following the brief, but very large storm, we still went for our walk. It was still really warm and the rain was already half dried. It was very surreal. And also my 1st Chinese storm.

So now, it's back to gorgeous weather and i get to go on holiday tonight! I'm going to Dalian tonight on an overnight train. I'll arrive early Thursday morning, check in. And i won't be checking out till Monday afternoon! All the Chinese have to work Sunday but i've been let loose an di don't have to work till Tuesday!

Following that i'll only have 6 weeks left in China. Crazy! It's gone fast. I'm a mix of emotions, i love my new home here, the language, the people. But i miss home terribly!

I'll blog again when i'm back with my activities over the holiday!

BYE!

Monday 25 May 2009

Major Update

Hey everyone! So much has happened and i've been awful at blogging it, so here is my catch up attempt.

First off my blog is actually blocked in China, apparently blogspot have done something to upset the government and they've blocked it. This also means i can't check any one elses blog, this is frustrating. So now i'm blogging via my brother! (Thanks bro!)

This past weekend i have been a busy girl. It also means that both Saturday amd Sunday i had to wake up ealier than i do on a weekday! Not good! So Saturday was spent earning some extra pennies judging an English speaking competition for the children in the local area. They had to first introduce themselves, then sing an english song or tell an English story. Then finally they should answer questions that we ask them on the spot. It felt much more like the X Factor or something. We had renditions of 'Adelweiss' and 'Big Big Girl' a few times. They dance too. Quite cute.

Then Sunday i woke up early again to go to my Kindergaton's performance/sports day. It was very cute and i plan to upload photo's soon. Races included: run in your Dad's shoes and for the 2 years olds, waddle to Mummy. VERY cute! Quite difficult to catch on film so my lengthy descriptions when i get home will have to suffice! :D

I've been offered two extra jobs within 2 days as well. This would be really good news if it works out. The first is to tutor one of my 3 year olds privately on a Sunday morning. The 2nd is to work in a local school for £20 for an hour and a half in the evenings. Not every evening. But i'm not sure of the exact details yet. It would be great to collect some extra money.

Last week i taught my 4 year olds the stroy of the 3 little bears. (There is a video on my facebook if you're interested.) I had to read through the story a few times then demonstrate acting it out to them. To understand what that was like, all the Lee Evans fans out there (especially Craig), should cast their minds to the sketch about how to give yourself a raise. I'm a one woman show playing all the parts, narrating and changing scenery. It's not easy! Plus its nakkering!

This week i am going on Holiday! Wednesday night or Thursday morning i'll be catching a train down to the south of the Province to Dalian! I can't wait! Some seaside time! Some sight seeing! Nice hotel! I saved half of my wages this month so i've sacrificed for this! And i need it. Just one last break from school before the final push untill i come home! Apparently Dalian is great so i can't wait to come back and show you all the photos. Well in the words of some looney toon character who i believe was a pig...that's all folks!

Love and peace. xxx

Tuesday 12 May 2009

Bad luck comes in 3's - Or some rubbish like that...

Number 1: MASSIVE cockroach that came from no where!

Number 2: I drop my perfectly fried egg!

Number 3: Thyra gets spat at by the frying pan and drops a raw egg!

The timescale: 5 minutes!

Bit of a premature blog I know, but I needed to share my hardships! :P

Love and hugs!